Comments on: DJ Empty Threat and the Skipping 3

By: Ummezaynub

Ummezaynub — Tue, 27 Apr 2010 10:04:36 +0000

http://lordsfavors.wordpress.com/2010/04/27/muslim-mommy-circle-controlling-our-anger/….The last circle we had, we discussed Sister Olivia’s article DJ Empty threat. All of us could relate to using the 1-2-3 technique only to have it backfire. First of all, as Muslim moms we should try to minimize the threats. If we do make ‘threats’, then make it solid and unemotional, something that you can and will follow up with consequences. This is essential for our words to mean anything. Otherwise we are lying- this was a big aha moment for some of the younger….

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By: Muslim Mommy Circle-Controlling our anger « Then which of your Lord's favors will you deny

Tue, 27 Apr 2010 09:59:47 +0000

[...] last circle we had, we discussed Sister Olivia’s article DJ Empty threat. All of us could relate to using the 1-2-3 technique only to have it backfire. First of all, as [...]

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By: Becoming a ScreamFree Mama « the road less traveled

Becoming a ScreamFree Mama « the road less traveled — Wed, 07 Apr 2010 03:14:35 +0000

[...] does not occur in a scream-based relationship. Olivia has another great post describing this: DJ Empty Threat. We end up screaming empty threats and in the end no real discipline [...]

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By: mummyjaan

mummyjaan — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 13:57:17 +0000

1,2,3 does work like magic, but only if you've remembered the 2 basics of no emotion and no talking. There *isn't* supposed to be any screaming involved. If screaming creeps in (over time...), it's time to go back to basics again.

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