Subhana’allah the dream that u had, Allah(subhanahu wata3ala) is trying to tell you something. When i saw that u said ur too young for getting married. i was dissapointed becuase ur not that young to have the resposiblity.Subhana’allah, my sister got married wen shes 18. and Allahumma lakal hamd, she is a tottaly different sister that i have known before. She completly changed. u know y?. becuase she got married And she was old enough to be responsible. now i Know some people think that they rnt “old” ebough to get married but its better for them. wat did the propthet (sallallahu 3alyhi wassalam) said?.. well ill phrase some of this haeeth. the best amongst you are the ones who get married at a young age, and from protecting themselves from Fitna. I am sure u have herd of this haeeth. well its not the same exact words, but its something like this. just do istikhara ukhti, and see whats ur heart is telling for u to do. May Allah(3azza wa jal) make it easy for you and may Allah guide you to the right path.

wasalamulikum warahmatullah.

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Yes. Its easy to fall in love with someone.But falling in love with the right person,at the right time,to the right degree,for the right purpose and in the right environment is not easy for many but also not impossible for many few.Success in marriage dosent’ come merely by choosing the right mate but by being the right spouse.

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Jazakum Allahu Khairan

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Assalamualaikum. I would just make dua’a in Salat for guidance and answers. Dreams are not always meant to be interpretted. As far as your age goes…going through the process of a proposal forces you (in a positive way) to grow up. Also, many times, just looking for the right spouse takes a long time. Don’t worry about your age. Some people feel as if they will not be ready until 30. Marriage is half of your deen:) May Allah make this process easier and pleasant for you. Ameen.

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refering to umm-mohammed, what if we get a dream of someone? I got a weird dream last few weeks. Even so I’m not really thinking of marriage at that time. Even so, I’m not ever really thinking of the guy. It’s kinda weird to have that dream. I’m not so sure whether it is a true dream but as far as my observed, there’s nothing bad with the dream. Furthermore, I am in wuduk before I sleep and while reading book about iman until I fall asleep.. (the night I got the dream). Indeed it is not a bad dream. But still until today I trying to figure out what’s the meaning of the dream. Not bad enough that the guy in the dream was just someone surround me. I have no idea whether is it a hint from Allah. I do istikharah for many times. But I’m not sure what to do next. i do have the intention for marriage. however, considering whether I’m still young to face the responsibility and challenges that might be. (goin to turn to 20 this year). I’m looking foward for His answer to my prayer.

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I am not in any position to give any advice whatsoever! I did want to tell you one thing: if you do get married to this guy at the end, HOPE YOU HAVE THE BEST MARRIAGE EVER! salams!

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