what is the most significant thing for a man or women in this temporary world, where we all are being examined by Allah (subahanallahu ta’ala)? Is it not that we may get forgiveness from Allah? Yes, And Allah says he will forgive every sins except “shirk”(taking partners associate with him). We will commit sin it is natural, but Allah wants that whenever we sinned we immediately ask for forgiveness and repent for our sin.

Allah has assigned punishment for some sins. If someone committed that kind of sin and really repents for it and want to get forgiveness from Allah, then that one must accept the punishment what Allah has assigned.

Why punishment is needed? To make it understandable I am giving an example; suppose, there is an electric wire and electricity is passing through it. If someone touches it while unaware about it then wont it shock? Obviously it will.

Accepting the punishment will purify the sinner and also abstains him/her from doing that again. Suppose, some one drank Alcohol, so the punishment for him/her is 80 lashes. If the sinner truly repents then he/she will accept the punishment also. After being punished what would be the psychology and mental state of the sinner. The sinner will think before taking alcohol the next time that “I have already repented for it, and if I do this mistake again, then this time also I have to go through all the punishment, no way!” thus Allah will prevent him/her from doing that mistake. Now let analyze what will be the psychology and mental state of the people who are witnessed of that punishment. They will think that if this man/women conceal this sin we might not be able to find out about it, but he/she is truly fears Allah most, and that is why he/she did not conceal it. Thus they will consider him/her highly for his/her faith.

So, by punishment Allah is purifying and also glorifying the sinner. Actually it is also a test after committing those sins that, whether the sinner accepting the punishment or concealing it fearing people, status and situation rather than Allah. Indeed Allah gives status honor and everything we need and have.

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Hats of to us Maverick..I really hope there are more men out there like u..I would like to share my two cents thoughts with u..

1. Firstly,marriage is the matter of the hearts which is built fully on adjustment, compromising and acceptance.

2. No one is perfect, every one of us have our flaws and sins that allah has kept concealed..If HE is ready to forgive and forget our sins,then who are we to condemn and criticise others who have erred and repented? If we truly reflect back our own actions and sins, then will we not judge others about their sins!!
We tend to forget who are are and our own sins, that’s why we talk badly about those who repented!

3.What is our guaranetee that we will die in a state of purity that is accepted by Allah swt? Do we know before hand about our future? We have to continously ask dua and renew our Imaan..to live with Imaan n die with shaahadah..only allah knows best about us..our past,present and future

4.Dear sisters and brothers of Islam, please do not condone any one for their sins, especially if they have repented and feel remorseful..show them the faith of Allah..the mercy of allah swt is bigger than our sins..may allah shower his mercy to all of us..

5. Please do not make a mockery about those who have sinned or is making mistakes..Dua for those people if you come across any..Allah is the holder of all things, if HE wills, he can change a good person into bad and vice versa…so pls pls do not judge or comment about anyone’s lifestyle or character or personalities..

6.Allah has made each and everyone of us different..we all need his blessings and mercy,barakah and rahamath..if we hide the sins of our fellow brothers/sisters, allah will hide our sins in the day of judgement!

Wassalam

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1. Brother I would like to know what in the world are you thinking? What makes you think that you are so superior that you can speak to anyone like this whether they committed a sin or not. you did not create her or any other woman for that matter so how dare you speak in this manner! only Allah (swt) can judge anyone and not you or any other human being can judge!

2. She repented so you have no idea if Allah forgave her and your sitting here collecting sins of your own.

Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And verily, I am indeed forgiving to him who repents, believes (in My Oneness, and associates none in worship with Me) and does righteous good deeds, and then remains constant in doing them (till his death)”
[Ta-Ha 20:82]

It was narrated that Anas ibn Maalik said: “I heard the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) say: ‘Allaah says: “O son of Adam, so long as you call upon Me and ask of Me, I shall forgive you for what you have done, and I shall not mind. O son of Adam, were your sins to reach the clouds of the sky and were you then to ask forgiveness of Me, I would forgive you and I would not mind. O son of Adam, were you to come to Me with sins nearly as great as the earth and were you then to face Me, ascribing no partner to Me, I would bring you forgiveness nearly as great as it.”’”
(al-Tirmidhi, 3540; classed as hasan by Shaykh al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, 4338)

It was narrated from Abu Dharr that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said that Allaah says: “… O My slaves, you commit sin night and day, and I forgive all sins, so ask Me for forgiveness …”

(Muslim, 2577)

3. You are very arrogant and that my friend will not get you very far. just like this woman you will have to stand in front of Allah (swt) and justify yourself so worry about your problem before pointing at someone elses.

It was narrated from ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Mas’ood that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “No one who has an atom’s-weight of arrogance in his heart will enter Paradise.” A man said, “O Messenger of Allaah, what if a man likes his clothes and his shoes to look good?” He said, “Allaah is Beautiful and loves beauty. Arrogance means rejecting the truth and looking down on people.”

4.how can you advise anyone on anything when you language is so vulgar.

Cursing a great deal is criticized, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The believer is not a slanderer, one who curses a great deal, one who indulges in obscenity or who in engages in foul talk.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi (1977); classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi.

5. And last but not least, you just gossiped about many women who committed this sin but i can swear to you that there is many more men who commit this sin on a daily basis.

It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever has wronged his brother with regard to his honour or anything else, let him seek his forgiveness today, before there will be no dinar and no dirham, and if he has any good deeds to his credit they will be taken from him in a manner commensurate with the wrong he did, and if he has no good deeds, then some of his counterpart’s bad deeds will be taken and added to his burden.”

6. and how can you say that they will end up with a black man as a punishment, are you a racist now when we are all considered people in the eyes of Allah?

i can sit here and list your sins all day just based on your entry but people should know better than to concern themselves with what is not there business in such a negative manner.

Allah knows best and he knows what everyone truly deserves and no one else knows so please stop pretending like you do!!!

Salam

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